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Preparation for marriage in the Christian practice and guidelines that the church give when choosing a marriage partner.

Answer Text:
Preparation for marriage
The Christian practice:
Choosing a marriage partner:
Although physical appearance may be an important consideration in choosing a marriage partner ,there are other qualities that are more important. The following are some general guidelines the churches give on choosing a marriage partner:
Commitment to one’s faith:
Churches advise Christians to marry fellow Christians.
Moral uprightness:
A young man or woman is encouraged to study the character of a possible marriage partner however, it is normally difficult to do this because while courting the man and the girl tend to be on their best behavior.
Common interest:
When looking for a marriage partner, it is important to find out if there is common interest. When people differ in their perception of issues, this can lead to unnecessary quarrels and tensions.
Ability to provide for the family:
For a marriage to be stable, it is important for the man and the woman to show commitment in providing for the family in terms of leadership, shelter, food, clothing, education, health-care and security.
Socio-economic status:
The socio-economic status refers to the cultural background, education status, religious background and the financial status of those intending to marry.
Education:
The education level of prospective marriage partners is also an important
consideration. When there is a great education disparity between the two, there may be a communication breakdown between the two people.
Common faith:
Sharing a common faith contributes to the stability of a relationship. It is therefore advisable that those intending to marry belong to the same church.
Health status:
The acute prevalence of HIV and AIDS and STI’s today has made it necessary for prospective marriage partners to consider the health status of their partners.
Management of family finances:
Management of family finances is an important consideration for prospective marriage partners.